I still remember that I had the ‘big dream’ of studying at the topnotch college once I passed my 12th Grade examination. My dream turned into reality, and my parents were the people who gave more water and light into the dream to make it come true.
In my area, the best education for women is up to the degree of 10th or 12th Grade though I get the opportunity to transcend that, but this additional education costs lots, beginning from finance to safety. The parents actually have to have the nerves and religion to send their daughters away, particularly in a society such as this where dignity begins and ends highlighting on the women’ issue. Basically, educated or professional girls are looked at with the eye of less esteem.
Gradually, I turned more confident, lively and decided As well as being a graduate. My view took a positive image with a ‘hungry ambition’ because of good teachers and education. A chance for a vibrant future is waiting for me, the fantasy that I and my parents saw together was to find a fantastic job and get a scholarship for additional education.
Unfortunately, the hindrance is the proposals. Various suitors knocked for tying the knot, but I recommended to take a bit more time to finish education.
As parents get older, they get insecure and would induce the women to get married in an emotional way by revealing ugly pictures of the results of one woman together with mentioning the societal loopholes. They attempt to convince that a woman’s ultimate job is to be a wife and mother rather than being educated or professional, they speak about how the society would begin to think that there is problem with the woman and schooling has spoiled her.
Soon, the woman gives up into the family’s wishes. I’ll begin a new life as a married woman and my aspirations will rust away in my house that I will leave behind. I will become everything but not exactly what I wanted to become.
What’s awful is that we cannot make our ways from the typical social tantrums, we provide up in the path to education, we believe that our main objective of life is to get married.
Why don’t we expect that the women’s ability to have their own identity in the professional aspect? Or why is somebody just considered old in age 30 or 31 although both emotionally and physically, she is fine? We forget that education really makes a girl better both as a wife and a mommy.
Education doesn’t harm women or poison their minds. We should trust their dreams, choices and judgments too.